Manifesting Magnificence

Tired of Kissing Frogs? Hone your manifesting skills…

Actually you already started! Assuming that you read last months post and followed the steps, you’re already off to a great start!

First you’ve set an intention and you’ve begun to get really clear about it. How does it feel to you?

There are a few things to consider in your manifesting work. Before you manifest something into your life think about how you’re going to feel when you get it. For instance, I had a friend once who led a life of loneliness and rejection for many years. He had been overweight most of his life and had not been successful in love. However, his life changed. He lost weight and got in great shape and it totally changed his life. Once these things happened Jon set an intention to have a trophy wife. He talked about it all the time. He may not have been consciously manifesting… because at that time he had not idea what it meant to manifest something into your life. However, he was successful, he met and married very quickly a beautiful young woman who was simply stunning. He seemed to be so happy that his dream had come true. I saw him a year later and he told me that he and his wife had divorced. As it turned out he said she lacked the moral character he desired in a mate and she had been unfaithful to him after running up nearly $80,000 in Credit Card debt. He sat down and rubbed his head and said… you know Chyrl, I just don’t know what went wrong.

What went wrong is that Jon got what he asked for. He manifested this person into his life. Be careful what you ask for.

So step one is to review your soul mate description and consider how step three felt to you. When you imagined your life with this person in it… did you take into consideration all aspects of what your soul mate will bring to the table? Make sure you have covered all the bases. I also think its relevant to consider your motivation behind your desires. Is your motivation pure? Are you seeking to find this soul mate to feed your spirit and share your journey so that you can life with intention and purpose bringing good to the world together? Are your desires spirit driven or ego driven? It’s helpful to write down the reasons you desire this person in your life.  Desires from the ego seldom serve us.

Now that you have considered your desires and motivation carefully lets get started honing your manifesting tools.  Follow these steps to help you achieve the actualization of your perfect partner.

  1. Believe!! You have set an intention… now believe he/she is coming.
  2. Meditation – take time daily to connect to your spirit and get grounded. By doing so you will be more inspired to live in the anticipation of your partner and take actions from integrity.
  3. Clean up – Remember that what you have been doing is not working. So make changes… begin to create and develop the life you want to live with your soul mate.  Eliminate things that are not serving you and your purpose and that are not in alignment with your intentions and desire. Focus instead on things that will serve you and your partner in the wonderful life you are going to build together.
  4. Build it and they will come! Create a space for you new life and your new partner. How will they come if there is not room in your life for them? Make your home ready to welcome your soul mate! Do you have a bedside table on both sides of your bed? Is it free of clutter and inviting? Do you have a special place for he/she to relax in your home… you have your favorite chair you like to relax… is there a space for him to do the same? Get out both of your coffee cups and have a second robe waiting. Make time in your life for your new partner and put yourself in the presence of his/her energy frequently. Connect with them.
  5. And perhaps the most important step of all… make your self ready. Love and cherish your body and take care of it. Perhaps you need a new look to go along with your new life and partner.  Ask yourself; is your wardrobe up to date, are you due a stylish new haircut, are you engaged in self care both physically and mentally? Be at your best!! Get a mini makeover if you need. Enjoy the process… remember its part of manifesting your soul mate by making yourself ready.
  6. Create a ritual of invitation… Write a letter to your soul mate inviting them into your life… tell them you have created a wonderful space in which to share an extraordinary life with them. Tell your partner in the letter that you are waiting for them and welcome them. Wish them Godspeed on their journey to you! Now burn the letter and as the smoke rises into the skies and spreads in all the directions of the universe with it send out your intentions.
  7. Be grateful… be grateful for your journey. Be grateful for all the experiences in your life that have led you to where you are today. Be grateful for your soul mate who is seeking you now… and have gratitude that they are on their way.

All of the exercises and steps I have described will help you in creating and manifesting your desired partner. Know in the deepest place in your soul that you deserve this wonderful person and that they are on their way to you now.




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